Integrating Into The Mainstream

It's hard enough being the new student at a new school… but being the new international student is downright scary. You will look a little different, dress a little differently and definitely speak a lot differently! But, with the right mind-set, you can turn what may seem like an incredibly terrifying leap, into a truly gratifying experience that will help you gain confidence and grow as a person. Here are a few tips for making the integration into the mainstream classes:

BE YOURSELF

If you try to put on some 'cool' front in the hope of being accepted more easily, you'll have a long, exhausting journey ahead of you trying to keep up the facade. Be comfortable with who you are, what you like, what you don't like and soon enough, people of similar interests and personality will gravitate towards you naturally.

PRACTICE POSITIVE THINKING

Don't go into the classroom on your first day worrying, or you'll end up giving off a negative vibe. Give yourself a little pep talk every morning, focusing on what you like about yourself and you'll exude a more confident and positive energy. People are attracted to this kind of energy so you're bound to attract a lot more friendly smiles!

INITIATE CONVERSATION

Don't assume you'll be pummelled with kind and fun-loving students inviting you to their parties straight away…they may be feeling a little nervous about approaching you too! Striking up random conversations with strangers is difficult for anyone, but use the fact that you are in a school setting. Even if you know the answer, ask someone a question for help with directions, for information about the tuck shop or about where to find your next classroom. If you approach someone in a polite manner and you're asking for assistance, no-one is going to ignore you, and that question may just lead you into introductions and conversation!

STUDIES

No doubt, if you have come all the way from overseas, your studies are important to you, as they should be. Learning in a second language is challenging and you are going to need all the help you can get, so don't be afraid to ask for help. Your teachers are there to teach you! If you don't understand something, ask for assistance: ask your teacher, ask a classmate or ask your home stay family. If you still find you're not receiving the extra help you need, visit the school counsellor and he or she will be able to play a role in getting you that help, or communicating with your teachers.

Another idea is to join together with other students and create a study group where you can discuss assignments and help each other to understand homework and assignments. It may not be your idea of fun on a Friday afternoon… but it is necessary for your progress, so make the effort. You will thank yourself for it when you graduate university with high distinctions! Then you can have all the fun you want!